hang on

sighs i think that those who put r/s on hold are quite selfish.

ok lets call them sender, the one who suggest it.. and recipient, of cos the other party

the sender request for the r/s o be put on hold, in the fridge, blah blah.. so theoretically, he's free to do anything he wants..when he feel like it, then get back together.. whereas if in the end dun want, then break up.. then the recipient how..just wait lor.. like also dunnoe wat to do..

maybe if want to put on hold, set a time limit rite.. dun keep people waiting and waste their time.. or maybe pinning their hope on something that will never happen.. then become disappointed.. even more hurt than yi dao liang duan..

sighs.. why carn pple just sit down and talk abt it..instead of choosing to be an ostrich and hide frm it.. asking for a short break instead of just break up.. and keeping the other party in suspense..

hmm lucky for me, we are still living happily ever after =)